I think my best friend who I've been friends with since 4th grade is secretly gay. We both jokingly say things to each other like, "wow you look sexy in that shirt I'd even do you". But he comes on strong with it. He's never had a gf but isn't virgin he says. And he never wants to go meet a girl. I honestly don't mind if he is, I just wish he didn't have to keep up the appearance with me, his bff.